Silence can be used in a multitude of ways for different kinds of reasons and intentions. However, with phone dating it’s best to leave your silence locked up because if you don’t communicate on the phone, the other person may become uninterested and hang up.
You don’t have to worry if you are shy or don’t know what to say. This blog was created to help you by giving you some suggestions and recommendations. When you’re first getting to know someone over the chat lines, one recommendation is to ask questions that call for more than a yes or no response. This allows for your phone friend to open up and reveal more about him or her and it gives you the opportunity to learn more about your new pal. You can really ask your new friend anything you want to know about him or her. This will keep the conversation flowing. Your phone friend may ask you some questions too and you can share more about your life, interests, and who you hope to meet on the chat lines.
Typically within a matter of minutes and by being open to others on the chat lines, you will recognize if you and the other person on the phone are a good match. If for one reason or another it isn’t a good fit, simply end the call. You can redial the chat line number to get instantly connected to another person.
Another suggestion to keep the conversation flowing is to use active listening skills. By doing so, you can make your phone friend more comfortable in sharing. Many people on the chat lines are looking to be heard and if you can do that for folks, you can truly give people something valuable and they will likely do the same for you.
