You’ve probably heard about tantric sex but do you know what it is? Tantric sex is on trend these days, just like meditating, being present, exercising, doing crossfit and being a hipster.
Now granted, not everyone wants to try crossfit or being a hipster but we think everyone should try tantric sex or at least talk about it on one of our one-on-one phone lines! Even our community phone lines can be a great place to talk about tantric sex. You may meet another community member that practices it and they can give you tips and pointers or you may just have a great conversation with other sexual liberated people and turn some of them on to the idea of trying it!
So what is tantric sex? Tantric sex on hot chat is all about being connected to your partner. The origins of tantric sex are difficult to pin down exactly but the practice appears in Buddhist and Hindi writings. The main goal is to achieve a heightened sense of awareness and connection with your partner. Through communication and mindfulness, you both learn how to enjoy yourselves together, connected as one. Here are some really basic tips on how to get started with tantric sex. We believe calling in to one of our phone lines for a one on one call is a great way to being your practice. Talking about sex and getting your partner turned on with your words is a gateway to having great communication with your lover in real life scenarios and that is a big part of getting in the tantric groove!
Another way to get your tantra on is to experiment with power play. Not everyone is into hardcore BDSM and we get that, but playing with being dominant and submissive and the exchange of power relies on you trusting your partner, which in turn strengthens your tantric connection. There is an element of mindfulness that comes with tantric sex, so it helps to clear you headspace up a bit before engaging in tantric sex. Taking a minute to collect your thoughts with your partner, breathe and be present is a nice gateway into having a really good tantric experience. And lastly, slow things down. If you really want to get tantric right, allow yourself the time to do it. Don’t rush through foreplay and sex to get to the orgasmic reward. Remember tantra is all about the journey, so take your time, be present and enjoy it. In the end you’ll have some of the best sex of your life!