Lesbian styles are a way to express yourself, make yourself visible and let others know that you are gay. Dressing in lesbian fashion is also a way to identify with other lesbians.
There are a lot of different sapphic aesthetics that can be seen in lesbian fashion. Whether you’re a butch or a femme lesbian, there are some important things that you need to keep in mind when dressing like a lesbian.
Stem Style
A stem is a Black or Latinx lesbian who identifies as a mix of stud and femme on the gender spectrum. This term originated from the Black and Latinx LGBTQ communities and is a racially specific version of futch (which is a combination of butch and femme).
Stems are able to have a masculine energy while also showing off feminine traits. They can wear dresses, have long hair, and care greatly about their appearance.
They can also wear makeup that is more feminine than what you typically see on straight women. This can include wearing lipstick, or using feminine products like perfume or body lotions.
They can rock a button-down shirt and jeans one day, and then step out in a short skirt and heels the next. This is a great way to show off a unique style that isn’t typically associated with lesbians.
Butch Style
The Butch Style is one of the most popular styles among queer women. It’s characterized by short, masculine haircuts and a preference for menswear.
Butch lesbians often favor below-the-knee cargo shorts and tees, as well as short skirts with tights or leggings to show off their leg hair. Butch lesbians also wear jeans and other menswear staples like button-up shirts, dress pants, suspenders, and boots.
Shoes are an essential part of any butch lesbian look, especially if you’re going to dress up for any reason. Butch women love a good pair of smart shoes, from Oxfords to brogues and Chelsea boots.
Jewellery is another big part of butch fashion. It’s a great way to showcase your personality and add a bit of flair to your look. Butch women don’t typically wear gold, but silver, brushed steel or platinum jewellery is perfect for this look. And if you’re going for more of a hip-hop vibe, then chunky chains could be the way to go.
Femme Style
If you’re looking to dress in a softer, more feminine way, you might want to consider the Femme Style. This style focuses on femininity and includes characteristics such as long hair, form-fitting clothes, jewelry, makeup, and other feminine details.
There are different types of femmes, but they share a common interest in reclaiming and embracing the femininity that’s often seen as oppressive. This can be a great source of empowerment and strength for queer women, especially those who may feel like they’re not seen as feminine enough in the world.
Lesbian styles have gone far beyond the stereotypical butch/femme dichotomy, and many of today’s femmes embrace a wide range of gender expressions. From cottagecore fashion to sporty tomboy styles, there’s something for everyone.
Lumberjack Style
If you’re looking for a rugged yet modern take on an outdoorsy aesthetic, the Lumberjack style is one to consider. This look has a no-nonsense approach to clothes and a lifestyle that prioritizes efficiency and practicality.
These styles are great for men who don’t have a lot of time to spend on their fashion and are more interested in the outdoors than meticulous grooming. It also works well in all sorts of weather conditions and situations.
To put together an authentic lumberjack costume, choose a long-sleeved shirt with a plaid or flannel pattern. Pair it with blue jeans and sturdy work boots. Add a pair of wool socks to complete the look.