What to do when, between a wild phone sex session and the other, there are those awkward moments of silence? While it may seem that neither you nor the other person know how to fill them, the truth is that it’s very easy: all you need to do is asking the right questions, which will act as ice-breakers. Here are some handy suggestions:

“What do you like in bed?”. This question may sound simple, but it’s very important to understand what turns your partner on and what doesn’t. You don’t want to guess, since you can’t see their body language to understand if they like what you’re saying or not. Also, it’s certainly a great conversation starter…

“Have you ever done (insert a sexual act of your choice) with someone before? Would you?”. This is another important question that helps you knowing your phone sex buddy better. Don’t forget to ask it before jumping right into revealing to them your hottest fantasy, so they have the opportunity to tell you if it’s something they want to consider or not.

“Do you like sexy role-play?”. If your phone sex buddy answers yes, share your fantasies with them! Chances are that they will like at least one of them, and you’ll find yourself engaging in the hottest cops and robbers or doctor and patient game of your life!

“Have you got a particular fetish or kink?”. When asking this, remember that everyone has different sexual tastes and fantasies, so make sure that you show respect to the other person even if they confess to have a fetish that may seem strange to you. Among consenting adults even the dirtiest sexual acts are totally legitimate! Of course, if it’s something you aren’t into, simply say that you aren’t interested in trying it!

“When did you have the greatest orgasm of your life?”. This question is perfect to start very dirty conversations: it encourages your phone sex buddy to tell you a naughty story, and to be very descriptive. After they’ve told the story about the biggest orgasm of their life, it’s your turn to tell everything about yours!